Minor: Update changelog for 45.0.0 and tweak CHANGELOG docs (#14545)

* Update release README instruction for publish ordering

* Update changelog (#14460)

Author: alamb

dev/changelog/45.0.0.md

@@ -19,7 +19,7 @@ under the License.
 
 # Apache DataFusion 45.0.0 Changelog
 
-This release consists of 252 commits from 83 contributors. See credits at the end of this changelog for more information.
+This release consists of 258 commits from 83 contributors. See credits at the end of this changelog for more information.
 
 **Breaking changes:**
 
@@ -94,6 +94,7 @@ This release consists of 252 commits from 83 contributors. See credits at the en
 - Support arrays_overlap function (alias of `array_has_any`) [#14217](https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/14217) (erenavsarogullari)
 - chore: Adding commit activity badge [#14386](https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/14386) (comphead)
 - docs: Clarify join behavior in `DataFrame::join` [#14393](https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/14393) (rkrishn7)
+- Prepare for `45.0.0` release: Version and Changelog [#14397](https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/14397) (alamb)
 
 **Other:**
 
@@ -290,13 +291,18 @@ This release consists of 252 commits from 83 contributors. See credits at the en
 - FFI support for versions and alternate tokio runtimes [#13937](https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/13937) (timsaucer)
 - Do not rename struct fields when coercing types in `CASE` [#14384](https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/14384) (alamb)
 - Add `TableProvider::insert_into` into FFI Bindings [#14391](https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/14391) (davisp)
+- [branch-45]: Backport chore: Upgrade to `arrow`/`parquet` `54.1.0` and fix clippy/ci (#14415) [#14453](https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/14453) (alamb)
+- [release-45] Fix join type coercion (#14387) [#14454](https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/14454) (alamb)
+- [branch-45] Support `Utf8View` to `numeric` coercion (#14377) [#14455](https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/14455) (alamb)
+- [branch-45] Update REGEXP_MATCH scalar function to support Utf8View (#14449) [#14457](https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/14457) (alamb)
+- [branch-45] Fix regression list Type Coercion List with inner type struct which has large/view types (#14385) [#14456](https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/14456) (alamb)
 
 ## Credits
 
 Thank you to everyone who contributed to this release. Here is a breakdown of commits (PRs merged) per contributor.
 
 ```
-    46	Andrew Lamb
+    52	Andrew Lamb
     22	Ian Lai
     20	dependabot[bot]
      8	Bruce Ritchie

dev/release/README.md

@@ -275,21 +275,21 @@ Verify that the Cargo.toml in the tarball contains the correct version
 (cd datafusion/functions-aggregate-common && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/functions-window-common && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/doc && cargo publish)
-(cd datafusion/macros && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/expr && cargo publish)
+(cd datafusion/macros && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/execution && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/functions && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/physical-expr && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/functions-aggregate && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/functions-window && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/functions-nested && cargo publish)
-(cd datafusion/functions-table && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/sql && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/optimizer && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/common-runtime && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/physical-plan && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/physical-optimizer && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/catalog && cargo publish)
+(cd datafusion/functions-table && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/core && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/proto-common && cargo publish)
 (cd datafusion/proto && cargo publish)