chore: Upgrade all pnpm deps (#8002)

pnpm up --latest

Reverted back to react / react dom v18 since fluent UI currently breaks in weird ways under v19

The upgrade required the following migrations
- Remove google.api.field_behavior annotations from protobufs which need ts_proto_library. They aren't incompatible, but the amount of silo infrastructure that would need to change doesn't justify the benefit of the annotation
- Upgrade to bufbuild/protobuf version 2 needed migration see https://buf.build/blog/protobuf-es-v2
- Upgrade to latest webpack version required a migration to ecmascript modules.
- Since we are running node version 17 (we need to fix this), I'm forced to add `.js` as a suffix to my imports when running in node processes and using ecmascript modules. I also need to polyfill the fetch API since bufbuid/connect dropped support for node v17

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- Covered by existing test cases

GitOrigin-RevId: 9e48bae7127ea9ada4cdcb9b5d65a0e82f4a5bde

Author: mrmeku